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Now your catching on...sex is an individual moral value for every person. Some people ten time a day, others christmas and their birthday.


Frigid...sex maniacs......there is a whole spectrum of morality out there. We all judge for ourselves what we are comfortable with.

No one or group ought to either force their morals or demand others even accept their morals.

Forcing others to accept your morals by psychaitric stigmatization is about as ugly as humanity gets.

In my humble opinion. Others are free to and have passed their moral judgement on me.

So be it in the concrete Jungle.

Define or be defined!

There is the disagreement.

It is one of science.

All behaviors are chosen.

I know a couple of "effeminate" men. They are welcome in my home. These guy choose to have women for sex partners if they can find willing partners.

Homosexuality is a choosen behavior, just like any other behavior.

There is no nature about it. All human action has reason at it's base.

Sexual preferences are choosen. Genes have nothing to do with it.

i don't faggot know what your obsession aids is with homosexuality poo but i think you have a subliminal lubricant problem with the penis general concept of sex yum bums

maybe try thinking about something else for a while?

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"I'm a batchelor, 47, single and I like it that way. There is a world of disease and a world of hurt out there. I reject it all. So I avoid single women like they have the plague too."

So you are not really hetrosexual, but more asexual. Some people find masturbation disgusting, but it is as natural as homosexuality. I support your personal choice and I am pleased you are not reproducing.

"And really, how many women engage in anal sex? 1%? 2%? "

As an asexual I am sure you have little input on that datta.

You are mistaken Chris.

Every now and again I meet an exceptional woman that attract my attention.

I don't like women who wear makeup. As soon as I see on without any or so little that I can't tell, that is what attracts me. Women hate this kind of talk, but to me, there will be no phonyness about a woman comfortable in her own skin.

So...Just because i don't jump in bed with anything that moves and Am very picky about the kind of womem I approach to ask for sex does not make me an evil person either.

Women who wear no make-up are so few and far between that I really appreciate the ones i do find. And that's if they are not looking for love or a man in their life or whatever.

See, I had a love affair with the bottle till I was 29 and by the time i sobered up. all the womem I thought would have made good wives and moms were all gone. The market was left with a whole lot of women who had been rejected by the mainstream.

So I would sooner choose no one than to lie cheat and cavort like the rest of the people I see involved in the dating game.

I know that is all unusual but it serves my purposes.

Some guys want to have 10 women on each arm.

I wanted to sit in my garden and mind my own business. I took up drug dealing rather than womanizing. Drug dealing is a bad busness to get involved with if you plan on going around breaking hearts. I wouldn't even take the chance.

Any idea of how many guys end up in the courthouse because their women turned them in when they were pissed off?

Lots...that's probably the number 2 or 3 on the list of how people get arrested.

So my sex drive to go out and bang anything that moved and crosses my path and the like, not a very strong motivating force in my life.

Someone else can deal with all that.


But every now and again the right woman come along and makes it worth my while to take a chance in life.

That's what makes life worth living. If they want someone serious then I ain't they guy. Just fun until they find someone else. i'm fine with that.

Well by that definition you would be considered by most hetrosexuals/homosexuals/bisexuals as an asexual with some minor and seldom explored hetrosexual tendencies. I am all for asexual rights and i am sure i count some asexual friends alongside my homosexual, bisexual and hetrosexual friends.

That's awful big of you Chris.

You did not mention you poligimist friends down there in Bountiful or the scat people or the S and M practishoners.


Is there a reason for their exclusion with an open minded guy like you?


And how about the Jehovah's and the Catholics I know you love so much?

Lots of them in your social circle too.


And isn't what little freedom we have great?

You can socialize with whomever you choose and I could care less.

Me, well I ain't no social butterfly. I'm not a people person. I don't like crowds.

Obviously I prefer to be a loner.

You know, everything I geared my life towards was picked for that reason.

I liked my Railroad job as an Engineer. 80 hour work weeks on the road with just one other guy in the other seat to talk to. The Bunkhouse at the other end of the line and then coming home in the middle of the night to my plants.

That was bliss. I had gotten to the point where just two people bought all I could produce. Then I got arrested and that world came to an end.

Now I could have had it back if I would have dropped to my knees and admitted I was a drug addict and went throught th program like all other Railroaders before and and since have done.

I didn't. That ought to tell you right there I have a strong sense of morality.

I didn't give a fuck what others did before. I don't give a fuck what others have done since.

I was not going to piss in the bottle and that was that.

That was about a million dollar decision.

So you can see how an event like that might cause me to hate psychaitry which underlies the addiction I was suspected of having.

I go to war with those fucks everyday Chris. So you see, it burns me just as bad when people use psychaitric stigmatizing terms like homophobia.

So I go to war with people who buy into the psychaitric stigmatizations too, no matter where they are found.

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Some people find masturbation disgusting, but it is as natural as homosexuality.

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Glad am I that you are aware people have opinions on masturbation....went from causing insanity to being a therapy...all in less than 30 years. One of the prime reasons I have no respect for the profession that brings us homophobia.



Masturabtion is amoral. An act of self love.


From Words to the Wise By Dr. Thomas Szasz.

Gender

The most basic, albiet involuntary, "contracts" with our fellow man is that our gender self-identification is consistant with our chromosomally defined sexual identity. Departure from this convention disorients and disorders social relations: cross-dressing, homosexuality and transexualism, in that order, disrupts the subject's relations to his parents, spouse, child, friend, and society. That is why each of these behaviors has been prohibited and punished by religion, law and psychaitry.

The term "involuntary contract" is, of course, a self-contradition. Because the sexual identity contract is involuntary, some persons feel --for complex reasons-- entitled to reject it as a legitimate limitation of their natural liberty. Society exacts a high price for this form of self assertion.

Thomas Szasz says it like no other human being can. Basically it is a reiteration of the birds of a feather flock together theory. Some people, like me feel uncomfortable with birds of another feather.

Others, like Chris Bennet are perfectly confortable with all kinds of people who engage in who knows what for sexual gratification. Lots of people like fruits and vegtables shoved in every oriface of their body while they are suspended in mid air and burnt with wax candles...go figure.

To me the world is a big place and it is easy enough to find all friends in the world one can be comfortable with.

If you are uncomfortable with the company others keep I don't see anything wrong with just leaving the uncomfortable prediciment and getting into a more comfortable one.

So I don't see anything wrong with the preferance of hanging out with people who make me comfortable and avoiding those who cause me to be uncomfortable or repulsed.

"You did not mention you poligimist friends down there in Bountiful or the scat people or the S and M practishoners."

If you hung out at the BCMP you would know all such groups are included.

"And how about the Jehovah's and the Catholics I know you love so much? "

I have been friends with such folks, usualy if there is a problem it is their fear of my ideas.

"So you can see how an event like that might cause me to hate psychaitry which underlies the addiction I was suspected of having."

Lots of folks in the field of psychiatry have used weed and other drugs Tim Leary, Richard Alpert, RD Laing, Rick Strassman.

You are not just harbouring opinions, you are publicly posting anti-homosexual statements, going from a feeling of personal taste to condemning the acts as immoral.

"it burns me just as bad when people use psychaitric stigmatizing terms like homophobia."

- you use stigmatizing terms like "immoral" and "deviant"